Resources

Safety in a Violent Incident

  • Talk to supportive family or friends about the violence in your relationship.
  • Have a place you can go in case you have to leave your residence.
  • Notify neighbors about the violence and request they call the police if they hear suspicious sounds coming from the residence.
  • Keep your purse and car keys in place that you can easily access in order to leave quickly.
  • During a violent episode, try to position yourself in a room that has access to outside. Do not be in a room that contains weapons.
  • Familiarize yourself with domestic violence services and shelters that you can call in case you need to leave your home. Hotline Number for Dauphin County: 1-800-654-1211.
  • Use your instincts, intuition, and judgment. Protect yourself and your children until you are out of danger, even if that means giving your partner what they want until he/she calms down.


Safety When Preparing to Leave

  • Prepare Important Documents.
  • Keep at your residence or with a trusted friend/family member.
  • Social Security Cards Birth Certificates Photo ID/Driver’s License Green Cards Health Insurance Cards
  • Important Phone Numbers and Addresses (friends, family, police, domestic violence services)
  • Open a savings account in your name or hide extra money in a safe place
  • Pack a bag that can be easily accessed when you leave. This bag can also be keep at a friend/family/or neighbor’s house.
    • Include: Set of extra clothing for you and your children Important documents
    • An extra set of house and car keys
    • Extra money, Credit cards, Checkbook, Food stamps
    • Medication for parent and children
    • Keep extra change for phone calls from payphones.
  • Know that if you use a credit card, the following month’s telephone bill will tell the batterer whom you called after you left.
  • Keep this information confidential by using a prepaid phone card, using a friend's telephone card, calling collect, or using change.

Safety if the perpetrator has Been Removed from the Home

  • Change locks on doors
  • Change your phone number and keep it unlisted.
  • Purchase and install smoke detectors and fire extinguishers.
  • Purchase rope ladders to be used to escape from second floor windows.
  • If possible, install a security system or outdoor lights that are sensitive to movement.
  • Notify neighbors and friends to call the police if they see the perpetrator or his car around the property.


Protection Orders

  • Always carry a certified copy and keep a photocopy in a safe place.
  • Give a copy of the order to the police department in the community where you live.
  • If your partner violates the protection order, call the police and report it.
  • You can also contact your lawyer, advocate, counselor, and/ or tell the courts about the violation.


Safety at Work and in Public Places

  • Notify your boss or workplace security about your violent situation.
  • Provide them with a picture and a copy of a protection order, if available, so they could call the police if the perpetrator is spotted.
  • If possible, have someone screen your incoming phone calls.
  • Vary your daily routine.
  • Shop at different grocery stores and shopping malls at different times than usual. Also, change banks if possible.


Safety Planning with Children

  • Teach children how to dial 911 in the case of an emergency.
  • Make sure they know their address and last name.
  • Think of a code word that you can use with your children that will signal them to leave the house and call for help.
  • Have a place (neighbor/family member’s house) where they can easily get to during a violent incidence. Here they get help without putting themselves in danger.
  • Teach children how to make collect calls to yourself or a friend/family member in the event that your partner takes the children.
  • Notify your children’s school about your violent situation.
  • Discuss with them who has permission to pick up your children.
  • Provide them with a picture and a copy of a protection order, if available, so they could call the police if the perpetrator is spotted.

  • National Hotline - 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
  • Penn State Milton S. Hershey Medical Center Medical Advocate - 717- 531-5188
  • Dauphin City (YWCA) - 1-800-654-1211
  • Cumberland - 1-800--258-2102
  • Lancaster - 717-299-1249
  • Lebanon - 717-273-7190
  • Perry - 1-800-258-2102

  • Family Violence Prevention Fund, Improving the Health Care Response
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Introduction

 

Health Care

  • "Emergency." The University of Texas at Austin
  • "Pills." morgueFile.com
  • "Woman sitting." morgueFile.com
  • "Pregnancy." Eastside Domestic Violence Program. www.edvp.org
  • "Health care provider and patient." National Cancer Institute.
  • "Health care provider interviewing patient." Free-Stock-Photos.com
  • "Health care provider and patient." Photo courtesy of IPAS.
  • "Child." morgueFile.com
  • "Health care provider examining patient." Free-Stock-Photos.com
  • "Health care provider examining patient." Free-Stock-Photos.com
  • "Justice." The Women's Center at Old Dominion University
  • "Woman's arm with bruises." Judy Walter: Hershey Medical Center Domestic Violence Advocate.
  • "Nurse with patient." National Cancer Institute.
  • "Woman with face scratches and bruises." Judy Walter: Hershey Medical Center Domestic Violence Advocate.
  • "No excuse." Dave's EMS Website
  • "Girl pondering." morgueFile.com
  • "Gun." morgueFile.com
  • "Chart." Made for this training tool.
  • "Physician planning with patient." National Eye Institute, National Institutes of Health.
  • "Writing." morgueFile.com
  • "Door knob." morgueFile.com

 

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Contact

  • Family Violence Prevention Fund
  • National Coalition Against Domestic Violence
  • National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE
  • Pennsylvania Coalition Against Domestic Violence (PCADV) (also the location of the National Center)
    6400 Flank Drive, Suite 1300
    Harrisburg, PA 17112
    717-545-6400
    PA 800-932-4632 (Monday - Friday - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m.
    National - 800-671-8149
  • PA Coalition Against Rape
    800-692-7445 (Monday - Sunday - 24 hours)
  • Rape Crisis Line
    800-654-1211 (24 hours)
  • Domestic Violence Line
    717-238-7273 (24 hours)
  • VictimLaw - Crime Victim Rights Laws by National Center for Victims of Crime and the U.S. Department of Justice
  • Women's Law - Legal Information